Resolving Family Conflict YAHUWAH's Way
From: "El YA, God of Love" Ch 31:33-84
33 When AEl YAH saw growing conflict among the Families of Men, He provided a Way to train those who were Wordless children saying, The Elder, son of YAH or Elder, daughter of YAH shall read Our Covenant of Laws leading towards Life, YAH’s Love and Eternal Salvation Laws and The AHdamic Principles to their near Family every Shabat and to their extended Family at least three times each year.
34 Every Family should seek to gather together on at least three of Our Seven Commanded KadUWsha (Sacred-Eternal byYAHUW) Feast Days. The Elder son of YAH or Elder daughter of YAH shall organize this.
35 Family conflicts will arise from time to time. When there arises conflict from one Family member toward another, you shall resolve it this way.
36 First, go directly to that one who offended or accused you of a trespass.
37 Ask to begin with prayer, acknowledging you are The Children of YAHUWAH.
38 Then express clearly your suffering and abuse.
39 If it involves a brother’s Lovee or Woman, he should be there to protect her or to shoulder her guilt.
40 If the issue involves their Children, both Parents should be consulted.
41 You have no right to address another’s Children alone, unless they are putting Human Life or property in danger.
42 Try to resolve the conflict by asking questions first and trying to see the problem from your accuser’s viewpoint.
43 Listen carefully to the accuser’s reasons. Analyze the issue using Our Covenant of Laws leading towards Life, YAH’s Love and Eternal Salvation Laws.
44 Forgive the accuser if he or she repents and asks forgiveness. The victim may set a fine as part of resolving the conflict.
45 If this fails to resolve the conflict, then take this to the Family Elders.
46 Every Family must have at least two-Family Elders. If a Family is small and is lacking at least two-Family Elders, then the Family must elect two Elders to be appointed for them.
47 All Family Elders must be 50+ from conception and be confirmed by 77% of the Family adults. Every unresolved conflict should be brought before the Family Elders.
48 All the Family adults must contribute to a Wordful Family Fund which equally divides out profits to all adult Family at least every six months.
49 The Family Elders shall have control of this fund.
50 The Family Elders shall decide the issue in consultation with both sides.
51 They shall issue a fine to the guilty. If the guilty does not pay the fine within 7 days, the fine times two shall be taken out of the guilty one’s portion of the Family Fund.
52 The guilty must pay the fine first but he can pay it to the Family Elders in trust while he appeals the judgment to the adults of the Family.
53 This appeal will cost two days wage given to the Family Fund. If the appeal succeeds, then the appeal cost will be refunded.
54 The Family adults will have 7 days to vote. At least 77% of the Family adults must vote for a vote to be Wordful. Their vote or decision will be final on the issue.
55 Any adult may decide to leave a Family he or she deems Wordless and join another Family, he must be invited by a 77+% affirmation vote by the adults of the adoptive Family.
56 Only then will his blood Family no longer have jurisdiction over him but only his adoptive Family.
57 However all existing fines must be paid before he or she may be adopted by another Family.
58 A member should leave still in love with all Family members and with their blessing, even if that blessing is under stress.
59 There must be no criticism or issue left among Our People against another unresolved over 30 days.
60 There must NEVER be criticism to any unbelievers against any YAHUWda, made by another YAHUWda. If a YAHUWda makes a criticism of another YAHUWda, he shall be required to be re-taught The Eternal Covenant of Life and fined one month’s wage.
61 If he does it again, he shall be fined a year’s wage. If it happens a third time, he must be cast out of YAsarEl as a Wordless man.
62 You are a Distinct People and a royal nation. Pray for one another. Help one another in time of crisis. Be One (Eckad), as We are Eckad. Uplift and encourage one another. Build each other up. Life is often hard. Brag on each other!
63 For those who choose to love their Family fully, give 10%, 20%, 30% or 50% of what you profit every month to your Family Fund.
64 Let there be no poor among your Family. Care especially for all your Children fairly, favoring none above the others.
65 Then you will have Our full blessing upon you! Then you shall be exceedingly happy!
66 When an offence occurs between members of different Families, let the victim first go to the abuser privately and seek to reconcile with him.
67 If it involves a woman or child, you must speak to the man responsible for them first.
68 If reconciliation is not attained, then the Family Elders of both Families must seek to decide the issue together.
69 Each Family must have the same number of Family Elders in that Jury.
70 The Family Elders decision and fine may be appealed to a majority vote of both Families but the voting members of each must be the same number.
71 The cost of this fine is two days wages paid to each Family Fund.
72 The joint Family vote may also be appealed to the District Family Elders. The cost of this appeal is 7 days wage paid to the District Elders. They will have 7 days to decide a verdict. Their decision stands solid for We, YAHUWAH, will guide them.
73 Anyone refusing to abide under the District Family Elders decision shall be cast out of YAsarEl and forfeit all benefits. Neither shall that one be considered a Believer any longer unless he repents with great sincerity and pays Our fine of the wages of one year of labor.
74 In all issues of YAsarEl, you shall abide by, Our 10 Laws leading towards Life, plus The 2 YAH’s Love-Laws, plus 2 Eternal Salvation Laws. You shall not vote upon these!
75 You shall apply the Civil-laws from The 10 Covenant Laws leading towards Life with a 77+% vote of all citizens 20+ years of age.
76 Parents shall have 2 votes and Elders shall cast 4 votes. Ministers shall not vote but must focus on teaching Our Word and caring for all YAsarEl.
77 Abide in these, The 10 Laws leading towards Life and The 2+2 Eternal Laws and you will have great success and a beautiful Family and nation.
78 You shall elect by 77+% vote a National-Servant to speak for all YAsarEl to all other peoples and nations.
79 If you are attacked by some enemy, he shall be the first to fight your enemy leader or king on your behalf.
(LeUWYA ministers should not vote in Family Jury Trials)
80 You shall also elect both Regional and District Councils of 12.
81 You shall also have a National Council of Servants to carry out your National votes.
82 All LeUWYA (Ministers)shall be welcomed to any Family Council, to provide Wordful knowledge and wisdom but they should not vote in Family Jury Trials.
83 In times of national war, when some enemy attacks you, your Council Elders must take turns leading your defense.
84 Do not send your young men into battle. You must protect them, all you Elders!